Etiquette: How to be a Well Mannered House Guest

by Deborah Joy Block, Certified Etiquette Consultant

1. Bring a gift.
2. Be respectful of the host's schedule.
3. Let them know when you're arriving and leaving.
4. Observe house rules Ex. removing shoes indoors, use coasters
5. Be helpful. Ex. offer to help wash the dishes, make/strip the bed or take out the trash.
6. Offer to pay for a meal or make a meal for the host.
7. Leave your space cleaner than before.
8. Make sure to say thank you!
9. Sends an RSVP.
10. Arrives on Time. Call if you are going to be late.
11. Never brings an uninvited plus one.
12. Always brings a host gift.
13. Isn't afraid to mingle.
14. Knows when to leave.
15. Be clear about the duration of your stay in advance.
16. Don't show up unannounced.
17. Follow house rules
18. Limit your phone use.
19. Behave modestly.
20. Be self sufficient if staying for an extended period of time. Inform hosts of your schedule. Keep reasonable hours.
21. Bring your own toiletries for extended stays.
22. Offer to bring something.
23. Stay off your phone.
24. Compliment the home and the food.
25. Approach pets with permission first.
26. Replace toilet paper roll if you finish it, use air freshener in bathroom and turn off the lights when done .
27. Immediately offer to compensate or replace an item that you break.
28. No feet on the furniture.
29. Don't touch the temperature thermostat or lighting. Politely request that it be adjusted.

Sources:
https://www.candacesmithetiquette.com/good-guest.html
https://www.themandagies.com/how-to-be-a-good-house-guest/
https://www.realsimple.com/work-life/work-life-etiquette/manners/houseguest
https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/how-to-be-a-good-guest-36650304